The first-generation-phone upgrade

Most families migrate a kid from their first device (kid smartwatch, iPad mini, hand-me-down iPhone) to a “real” phone around age 11-13. The migration itself is full of small risks.

Before handing over the new phone

  1. Back up the old device (iCloud for iPhone, Google One for Android).
  2. Transfer only what should transfer. Don’t blindly restore — review apps, photos, contacts first.
  3. Wipe the old device fully before donating, reselling, or handing down to a sibling.
  4. Set up the new phone with the kid’s existing Apple ID / Google account (so Screen Time / Family Link history continues).
  5. Review installed apps — delete any the kid has outgrown or shouldn’t have.
  6. Review followers / friends lists on social accounts — clean up stranger contacts.

What to audit during the transition

  • Photos with location data — strip before uploading to new services.
  • Old apps the kid signed up for at 8 that are still grabbing data.
  • Passwords — a new phone is a great time to force a password reset on every kid account.
  • Recovery email / phone number — should be a parent’s.

The “what’s different now” conversation

The new phone probably has more capability: better camera, faster internet, more storage, bigger screen. Walk through what specifically changes — and what the expectations are. Re-sign the family phone contract.

Migrating from Android to iPhone (or back)

  • Apple’s “Move to iOS” app is the official tool for Android-to-iPhone (text messages, photos, contacts, calendar).
  • Apple-to-Android: “Switch to Android” app.
  • iMessage deactivation: before leaving iPhone, sign out of iMessage at Apple’s deregister page. Otherwise texts to that number vanish into the void for months.
  • Google account → Apple: need to re-sign in everywhere and install iOS apps.

Selling or donating the old phone

  1. Sign out of Apple ID / Google account.
  2. Factory reset.
  3. Remove the SIM card.
  4. If selling: use a reputable buyback (Apple Trade-In, Amazon, Gazelle) — local Facebook Marketplace resale often ends in scams.